So I cooled my heels and started just being. I took the recommendation "stop looking for a mate" blah, blah, blah. Well I ain't been looking and look what I got. OK wait... I have a lot so... All I am saying is... What would possess a potentially married man (he actually claims 3 things... married, single and dating) to holla at me. Yes I am a fly filly! BUT that is not the point. What is the attraction beyond that on a deeper spiritual level that would make him think that I would be interested in that. Here is a tip about a sista i am to needy (lack of a better term) for that. I want attention (that is until I don't). You have a kid... fine. I understand what comes with that and can determine whether I am willing to deal. But if I ask you your "status" and you say all 3 and can not tell me what you mean by that... it ain't gonna fly.
To be honest I have been in a situation were I was the other woman. I was young he was young and we were both idiots. I have also been the cheater in a relationship... again I was young and an idiot. Both situations were uncomfortable. I am sure Karma has a hand in what is my life now. So let me say this.
Universe, I am wholeheartedly apologetic for what I have done in my past and seek forgiveness.I apologize to myself and seek my own forgiveness and I ask for Universal assistance in moving on. I also ask that married men (and women) stop thinking that cheating is ok!
