ooooooooooooooooooowwwwwwwwwwwweeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!! it has been a long time but i need to stop kidding myself and be real. i must blog on the regular it always feels so much better when i let it out ;). SO... here is something i need to let out. i have recently been accused of being condescending (for lack of a better term). boy did that take me aback. you know in psychology when you study perception and there are about 5 different ones. one where people see you, you see yourself and family sees you... etc, etc... i can not remember the theory exactly. well this year i have been put in front of a mirror that stings. i have always thought myself to be a caring and loving individual. i have always been sarcastic and if i don't like you i don't get down with you but i would never blatantly be like i don't like someone. i just wouldn't be all fake and in their face. anyway before a long story gets longer. i have been accused of being particularly condescending to men. EVEN worse... if i am then how the hell will i ever get a man. shit! now what do i do? do you mean to tell me i have been turning the brothas in about face all this time. couldn't someone have told me this before. so, i take it to the high council on all things kim... my ex-boyfriend. (who knows me well we were just not meant to be) the high council on all things kim has informed me that i can be condescending (yet another mortal blow) and that it is not a regular occurence UNLESS someone is a downright ass hole. so then i begin to think again and find some truth to what he is saying. it is true that if you are an asshole imma get in that ass and it might come off as condescending. but back to the man thing... as long a common sense prevails it is nothing to worry about. the high council on all things kim informed me that i had to get in his ass once or more times cause he said some dumb shit. SO then i did not feel so bad because i realized that this could translate across the sexes and not just men would feel the condescention ( it is a word now!) so i am not doomed to be single for ever!!!!! WOOOOHOOO! so all that read this... brothas i am available and i promise to be uncondescending (yes that is a word now too!) if you just give me a try. i am cute and cuddly. but don't get me vex cause i will condescend if provoked!

muah in buxomdom,
me